Author: KK

  • Exploring Vancouver Island

    Family Road Trip 2018

    For our 2018 family vacation, we did a road trip to Vancouver Island with our almost three year old Ariel and our five month old Sebastian (Ariel and Sebastian being the nicknames chosen by our mermaid loving three year old). We focused on Victoria and Tofino but spent a little time in a few other spots to help break up the drives. We also spent a few days in Vancouver so one of us could run a half marathon before heading back to Seattle.

    Heading to and exploring Victoria

    We planned to take the ferry from Port Angeles to Victoria but did not complete the reservation. We were on the road when we realized the mistake and it was too risky to get stuck in Port Angeles. We made a last minute change and drove to Vancouver and took the Tsawwassen-Swartz Bay ferry. We reserved a spot on the way and ended up with plenty of buffer time to explore the nearby area and get lunch. We even tried visiting Point Roberts but the line at the border was too long. Once we made it to the port we realized we should have hung out there. There were food options and a playground. On the ferry, we walked around, visited the playroom, and enjoyed the views. After we arrived in Victoria and settled in at the Royal Scot Hotel & Suites, Jared took Ariel for a swim in the indoor pool and I went for a walk with the baby. The weather was clear and the water calm. There was a small protest, street music, and tourists and locals alike heading for happy hours and dinner. I joined back up with the rest of my family for dinner at Red Fish Blue Fish where the long line (with kids!!) was worth the fish and chips.

    On our first full day in Victoria we headed to Butchart Gardens because we did not want to miss the chance to explore the gardens with good weather. Our expectations were surpassed. We loved the sunken gardens and enjoyed afternoon tea time at The Dining Room. We requested a table by the window in our reservation and were placed next to a window overlooking the Italian Garden. We split one afternoon tea and a lunch entree and walked away full and happy. The rest of the day involved our hotel pool, visiting a playground nearby, and cooking dinner in our hotel room. It is worth noting that we reserved a room that included a kitchen so we could eat in at least once a day. We were happily surprised to be upgraded to what was basically a one bedroom apartment with a full kitchen. This made our ‘room’ easy to decompress and eat in with the kids.

    It was down-pouring the next day, but we still explored Victoria with a self guided walking tour. Luckily, the kids napped in the BOB and the carrier for our longer than expected walk to Spinnakers for lunch with a view.

    Our last full day we went on a long walk to the farm at Beacon Hill Park, Ogden Point Breakwater, and Fisherman’s Wharf. We loved getting up close with the peacocks and baby goats in Beacon Hill Park. The baby goats would even climb up our backs and jump down. The grown ups were just as excited (if not more) as the kids. We were especially happy we got there in time for the morning goat run. From there, the Breakwater was a bit far with two kids but luckily we brought the BOB. The Breakwater was picturesque and the Fisherman’s Wharf was colorful and lively. 

    Heading to Tofino

    Even though it is only about four hours from Victoria to Tofino, we split the trip with one night in Parksville. We were worried that four hours would become eight after potty breaks and diaper changes. Leaving Victoria, we stopped in Chemainus for lunch, a self-guided mural walk, and time at the playground. The murals were fun, but the town was very quiet. Once in Parksville, we were are able to enjoy the water and views and have a low key dinner in our AirBnB.

    Exploring Tofino

    Tofino was our first true beach vacation as parents and we loved it. We stayed in a water front hotel with a balcony to enjoy the view when the kids were sleeping. Ariel loved playing in the sand and watching the ocean from the children’s swing. We even met our first Velella! Luckily we took one photo the day we arrived because it was the last day they were around.

    We spent most of our time relaxing at the beach and tide pooling but we also managed to go whale watching.  Sebastian hung out in the carrier while Ariel spotted the whales with mermaid tails. It was chilly and windy so the kids had to retreat indoors. Afterwards we grabbed a waterfront lunch so we could continue enjoying the view but stay warm.

    Heading to and Exploring Vancouver

    Heading out we stopped for a short hike and picnic. We didn’t want to take any risks with a three hour drive before the ferry so we stayed the night in Qualicum Beach before taking the ferry the next morning. Each parent took the opportunity to go on a evening beach walk and we all enjoyed a little beach time in the morning. The ferry ride was similar to before except we were a little frustrated that the television in the playroom could not be turned off. This was difficult for us when we keep our kids screens free. Luckily there were other kids to play with and plenty of boat to explore.

    We somehow managed to visit Vancouver on a yearly basis. We usually stay downtown but for this trip we stayed near South Main. It was a short walk to Jared’s race start in Queen Elizabeth Park and within walking distance to playgrounds, shops, and restaurants. We did a mix of eating in and dining out and made it to our brunch spot in Vancouver: Twisted Fork.

    Post trip reflections

    We were a little worried that we were crazy for doing a road trip with two young kids. We were more conservative than needed with breaking up the trips, but happy we played it safe. Staying in places we could cook reduced the need to dine out, which can be overwhelming with kids. We couldn’t get a kitchen in Tofino, but managed to have a refrigerator so we could do very simple lunches or dinners in our room. We look forward to visiting in the future when the kids are older. It will be the same places with new experiences.

  • Prepping for a Baby

    I put this list together for a friend and updated it after our second child in 2017. I don’t include clothes since you tend to receive plenty from family and friends. On our first, we did make sure to start with a set of short sleeve onesies, set of long sleeve onesies, cozy pants, socks, and hats. I sprinkle in a few bits of advice and insight on our personal experience.

    Diaper Changing

    • 1 Change pad – Rather than a change table, we put a changing pad on the dresser.
    • 2 changing pad covers
    • Pack of changing pad liners – We initially didn’t buy these but kept needing to wash the covers.
    • Small trash can for diapers. This can be for cloth or disposable.
    • Wipes and wipe holder – We use both disposable and reusable wipes. For cloth wipes, we also had a glass water bottle for wiping.
    • Antibacterial gel – We keep this on the changing table.
    • Diaper bag supplies: soft fold-able changing pad, disposable liners, wipe holder (we bought one that later broke and now use one that came free with a large pack of diapers), burp cloth, and spare clothes (for baby and you!).

    Cloth Diapers

    • We used Flip diapers for our first daughter primarily with these prefolds but also have some of the official inserts.
    • For overnight, we used a cotten nighttime prefold with a hemp insert folded in (hemp insert shouldn’t touch their skin). We then covered her diaper with wool bloomers.
    • With the second baby, we added some Grovia hybrid diapers. You can also try their trial kit, which is a good deal.
    • We also have a waterproof bag for putting dirty diapers in.

    Sleep

    • Swaddling – We could not find any the right size for newborn other than those at the hospital. For our first, we later used swaddling blankets. We stopped swaddling much earlier with our second because she was fine without and could roll over early.
    • Crib – For our first, we kept a standard sizes crib in our room the first year (lowers chances of SIDS). But she ended up in our bed much of the time after four months. We switched out the larger crib for a mini crib for our second. Our first switched to the crib mattress on the floor not long after turning one year. The crib has only a mattress and fitted sheet (no bumpers, blankets, or pillows). Our first got a small pillow and blanket at about 14 months.
    • We did not do a pacifier but bought natural rubber pacifiers in case needed them.

    Food

    • They don’t start solids until 6 months but I recommend baby led weaning (zero baby food). The Baby Led Weaning Cookbook has everything you need to know plus recipes.
    • We got a seat on Craiglist similar to this but it depends on what is best for your dining area. The biggest issue we have is that you cannot take the straps across the lap off to clean without taking the whole thing apart with a screwdriver (which we have not done).
    • We like these bibs as well as this full coverage one.

    Bottles (and the joys of pumping)

    • You should get a pump free through your insurance.
    • We did glass bottles and liked Avent Natural Glass the most because they are simple.
    • I recommend ordering some extra milk storage bottles and storage bags. I started pumping before going to work so she would take a bottle and I to build a frozen storage.
    • I personally cannot pump without my pumping bra.
    • You will want pads, especially at work. I have disposable and reusable.
    • And each morning, I packed a micro-steam bag for each pumping session. This made prep easy, especially if there is a microwave in the room you pump in. At home, I use a reusable sterilizer.

    Nursing

    • Buy nipple cream before your baby arrives. I prefer the kind that doesn’t need to be cleaned off.
    • For my first, I used a nursing cover for the first 3 months and then went without. I never bothered covering up with the second.
    • Nursing tanks are amazing because you can wear any top and not worry about pulling out the post baby belly.
    • I got a breast friend and a boppy. Probably overkill but I like having both. The boppy is also good for tummy time.

    Seats & Swings 

    • We have a cheaper version of this sleeper locally for hanging out and napping. We call it the taco. Once she could hold her head consistently up, we got a Bumbo with a belt.
    • We had a swing because we got it free but never used it. That said, others have found it to be a godsend.

    Moving Around

    • We did the Chicco Bravo Trio System but you should check consumer report for the current safest car seat. I don’t recommend used but if you do make sure it is not expired and never been in an accident. At 7 months we switched to a Diono Rainier, but my husband thinks it is too heavy and ridiculous and recommends a lighter one.
    • Car mirror
    • I found our sidewalks to be difficult with the regular stroller so we ended up buying a used Bob Revolution too. I may get a double too but they take up alot of space.
    • Somehow we got the following for free: newborn sling, Moby wrap, BabyBjorn, and Ergo. We barely used the sling but used the rest. The Bjorn is nice because it is easy but it is painful when the baby hits 15 or 16 pounds. If you pick only one, I recommend the Ergo with the newborn insert or something similar. With our second, we replaced the old Ergo with a Lille.

    Other things we found useful